Once upon a time

Hi Guys n Gals, it’s been a long time ever since i wrote something for my friends… 

I just read a story of a boy which changed me completely few days ago… I want all of you to read it once(i have just edited it in my style)…

Once upon a time there was a boy who was very happy living, easy going. He was very happy with his life style. Success was on his toes.
Quality Education, Great Job, Awesome Reputation, Loving Family and Caring friends, these were his assets.
But the only thing which was not in his life was LOVE of a girl.
He used to get crush whenever he saw some very nice (from the heart) girl. But unluckily the crushes were getting crushed…

So finally he decided that he will not go in search of his dream girl. He will accept the things as they come. Then a girl entered his life and changed him completely.
She showed so much of love and care, that the guy went crazy. He thought she is ideal for him, all their tastes, choices and even pasts were matching. He falls in love with that girl. He was very very very happy with

the way life was going. He started dreaming about their future life. But forgot to ask what that girl wants…

Then the destiny played a game with that guy and the girl went away from his life saying “this is not what i was looking for, i want to listen to my heart”, his heart was broken completely. It took few days for him to

understand why she did like that, why she went out of his life… When he realized the actual reason it was too late, he was even lost the right to apologies for his mistake.

Very sad right, story doesn’t ends here. It actually starts from here.

The time when he was in touch with that girl, unknowingly he was completely adopted a different life style, started seeing the other face of life.
When he realizes why this happened with him, he found “he is really a lucky guy”. He got a new life to live…. Sounds confusing?

Let me tell you in simple words.
The guy always fought for his success, success was never easy for him. When it came he was very happy because he deserved it. But this time it was not happening in the same way, for him success came unexpectedly

and went unexpectedly which was not his style. That guy was so conservative in living, just by thinking about his future that he was almost forgotten the value of his present.

Because of that girl he realized that he cannot plan the future the way he want, so why to waste the present.
He always hated somebody showing sympathy to him. He realized that the care what she showed was actually sympathy, which is not his cup of tea.

That girl unknowingly thought him something very unusual, “LIFE, king size LIFE”. Yes she thought him why not to be conservative while enjoying, what is the actual meaning of joy, why should you give more
Importance to your instincts. And last but not the least how to be happy with what you have now rather than crying/planning for something which u don’t/cant have. In return unknowingly that guy thought her how to

be loyal to yourself & how to face the reality.

Very filmy naa…. Then that guy’s lifestyle changed completely. He started enjoying every moment of life as if he is going to die very next moment.
He was least bothered about tomorrow. He changed his attitude totally, he realized the happiness lies within himself, it will get multiplied when u spread and decreases when u worry. So why worry when u cant
Control the things happening… Live the life like never before…
From that moment its a new beginning for his life, he started seeing the positive side of his life, in simple words “he had a bath for his soul completely”.

So the moral of the story is “Don’t give love to someone who actually don’t want it from you, don’t get depressed by someone’s departure from your life, see the positive side of the life when you are in depression. And

ultimately depression is not going to solve your problem, neither going to give any fruitful result. Don’t waste your time in waiting/searching for a soul mate, if there is someone special he/she will definitely enter your

life. Remember one thing there is nobody Ideal for anybody, actual love doesn’t happen by few days’ relationship, it takes years of compromise, commitment, acceptance and adoption to each other. When you are

really in love, you will not even come to know that you love that person. And you don’t need to say that you love him/her”.

This story touched my heart and it’s so near to each one of our lives. We just waste our time in search of soul mates but is it really required? Think again!!!!
I gave a thought after reading this story and accepted that boy’s new principle and it gave me lot of happiness. It might be applicable for you as well or many of you might have already adapted his principle…

But from the bottom of my heart I want to thank that girl for entering that boy’s life, making him to realize the beauty of life and spreading this message to many people like me to re-discover their lives.

So this is my resolution for new year, re-discover the life in a different style, in a different attitude, see the positive side of the life under bad situations and don’t plan and run behind the things, let the things run

behind you… In a simple sentence “Haso, gaao, jiyo, muskuraao, kya patha Kal ho na ho”.

Have fun… Enjoy and rock the life….

Wish you and your family a happy and prosperous new year in advance… Maja maadi

Chill…Sanju

My First Flight…………….. up up on the way ->

 

 All my friends came to escort me Raju, Vadi, Siby, Macha, Kappe, Adi, Sakku, Sunil, Pande and Not to forget KK Naga..

Many called and wished me happy journey (Tati, Pradeep(Hu), Vasu, Putti, Jeeva, Koldu, Bhatta, Nitu, Bully, Bach, Pankaj and many more…).  I was very thrilled for this moment.

When i entered in to checkin counter my heart was literally crying but was totallly happy also. I didnt had my dinner but i was not hungry. Siby came along with me in to checkin and guided me what to do. At that time i realised the importance of a friend. I wanted to see all my friends again one more time i captured all their faces in my mind and went in.

In checkin they asked my invite letter company id, thanks to M Ravikumar (my big boss) & Naga that i kept these things with me. Checkin was very cool.

When i went for imigration, there  the guy tensed me a lot (asking all my details). But i stood calmly, then one more person came and helped me in getting imigration quickly.

Then my hand luaggage was checked, i went in to waiting hall. There i saw WI v/s SA match.. Lara & Sarwan were playing good but Lara got bowled out to Kallis then i stopped watching it. There were two gentlman sitting infront of me, both were very experienced in flying it seems. I was bit nervous looking at them. Probably i was the only nerveous person in that hall.

Then my turn came for boarding at 1:25am and i went confidently inside. there were many magazines, i was confused to choose one so i took “The Hindu” newspaper. After 30 mins the flight started my seat no was 40B (next to window seat). So i was able to see the whole view during the take off. It was amazing, there was something strange happening in my stomach. I saw whole Bangalore during take off. It was unexplainable experience. After some time i drank some water and slept.

When i woke up it was around 7:00AM IST and a movie was playing in the flight. Thank god it was a hindi movie (Jaaneman), i watched the whole movie and had my break fast. And took a break and wrote all these things in my dairy.

After some time we reached Frankfurt airport (called as Franport). There the actual drama happened.

I got down from the flight and when in search of my terminal for transit… I was standing infront of Display board to check my flight time and terminal.

A cop came and asked my passport. I showed him, he said come with we need to do some enquiry…

I didnt had any other choice i wentwith him.. He took me out of that terminal, a police van was standing and there were two more cops sitting inside. They enquired me atleast for 30 mins… They asked me about my work profile, place of stay in Sofia, my company, duration of  stay everything… I had all proper documents so i showed them everything..

They frequently asked me how much money i am carrying, i replied i am not carrying much, money wil be transfered to my account after me reaching ther. Then they asked why i m not carrying a laptop being a system admin. Then some i was able to convience them that i m going for a business visit, everything will be provided by my client.

Then finally they left me without doing anything. Then i realised that they did it bcos of my first visit to Europe.

In Frankfurt i got a Banglorean company who was also coming to Sofia. Then i started feeling compartable.

This time i got a window seat so i saw view outside completely, i missed my lunch bcos my sleep. While landing it was really awesome experience. We came out of airport after all checks and i got a very good taxi driver he helped me to get my currency exchanged and spoke very pleasently to me..

He asked me some questions which were new to me, like ” here girls very beautiful do you want anybody for company?” i said ”sorry i m commited”, he asked “what do you mean by commited, are you married? or you have a girl friend?”.. Then i replied “I M IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE”, he understood i mean.

He dropped me in front of my hotel, I took some rest then my project manager “Manoharan” came and took me to McDonalds where i had my lunch @ 4:30pm. Later he took me to my office which 10 mins walk from my hotel.

In the middle all historical and cultual monuments were located.. I reached office and met my client IT manger & new team mates (Aravind, Albena, Subbu, Vivek, Rajesh & Satish). All are from TN (except Albena-Bulgarian) , so the common language used in office is tamil. Luckily i can understand tamil because of my stupid collegue Yegappan… All my new collegues are very cool and helping.

I started my work on the first day itself, started gathering info abt the action i have to perform, then we had a dinner in  McDonalds (now my favourite place). I came back to my room , took some break and slept..

The only thng i realised after reaching Sofia is ”the biggest asset that i have gained in my life is my friends, they are priceless and i m incomplete without them”…

The first thing i want to do after coming back is to thank all my friends, but the first rule of friendship says “no sorry no thank you”… 

So what else can i do… How about a treat???????????????

Guys u deserve it. Dont leave me to give any excuses. Plan it accordingly so that no one will miss it out… And this time i will sponser the boose also…..

New Beginning.

Here after. 

I will be start up loading my photos in picasa

& sharing my experience of sofia in this blog.

My picasa album : http://picasaweb.google.com/ghouse.hsd

Yet To Start

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