Once upon a time

Hi Guys n Gals, it’s been a long time ever since i wrote something for my friends… 

I just read a story of a boy which changed me completely few days ago… I want all of you to read it once(i have just edited it in my style)…

Once upon a time there was a boy who was very happy living, easy going. He was very happy with his life style. Success was on his toes.
Quality Education, Great Job, Awesome Reputation, Loving Family and Caring friends, these were his assets.
But the only thing which was not in his life was LOVE of a girl.
He used to get crush whenever he saw some very nice (from the heart) girl. But unluckily the crushes were getting crushed…

So finally he decided that he will not go in search of his dream girl. He will accept the things as they come. Then a girl entered his life and changed him completely.
She showed so much of love and care, that the guy went crazy. He thought she is ideal for him, all their tastes, choices and even pasts were matching. He falls in love with that girl. He was very very very happy with

the way life was going. He started dreaming about their future life. But forgot to ask what that girl wants…

Then the destiny played a game with that guy and the girl went away from his life saying “this is not what i was looking for, i want to listen to my heart”, his heart was broken completely. It took few days for him to

understand why she did like that, why she went out of his life… When he realized the actual reason it was too late, he was even lost the right to apologies for his mistake.

Very sad right, story doesn’t ends here. It actually starts from here.

The time when he was in touch with that girl, unknowingly he was completely adopted a different life style, started seeing the other face of life.
When he realizes why this happened with him, he found “he is really a lucky guy”. He got a new life to live…. Sounds confusing?

Let me tell you in simple words.
The guy always fought for his success, success was never easy for him. When it came he was very happy because he deserved it. But this time it was not happening in the same way, for him success came unexpectedly

and went unexpectedly which was not his style. That guy was so conservative in living, just by thinking about his future that he was almost forgotten the value of his present.

Because of that girl he realized that he cannot plan the future the way he want, so why to waste the present.
He always hated somebody showing sympathy to him. He realized that the care what she showed was actually sympathy, which is not his cup of tea.

That girl unknowingly thought him something very unusual, “LIFE, king size LIFE”. Yes she thought him why not to be conservative while enjoying, what is the actual meaning of joy, why should you give more
Importance to your instincts. And last but not the least how to be happy with what you have now rather than crying/planning for something which u don’t/cant have. In return unknowingly that guy thought her how to

be loyal to yourself & how to face the reality.

Very filmy naa…. Then that guy’s lifestyle changed completely. He started enjoying every moment of life as if he is going to die very next moment.
He was least bothered about tomorrow. He changed his attitude totally, he realized the happiness lies within himself, it will get multiplied when u spread and decreases when u worry. So why worry when u cant
Control the things happening… Live the life like never before…
From that moment its a new beginning for his life, he started seeing the positive side of his life, in simple words “he had a bath for his soul completely”.

So the moral of the story is “Don’t give love to someone who actually don’t want it from you, don’t get depressed by someone’s departure from your life, see the positive side of the life when you are in depression. And

ultimately depression is not going to solve your problem, neither going to give any fruitful result. Don’t waste your time in waiting/searching for a soul mate, if there is someone special he/she will definitely enter your

life. Remember one thing there is nobody Ideal for anybody, actual love doesn’t happen by few days’ relationship, it takes years of compromise, commitment, acceptance and adoption to each other. When you are

really in love, you will not even come to know that you love that person. And you don’t need to say that you love him/her”.

This story touched my heart and it’s so near to each one of our lives. We just waste our time in search of soul mates but is it really required? Think again!!!!
I gave a thought after reading this story and accepted that boy’s new principle and it gave me lot of happiness. It might be applicable for you as well or many of you might have already adapted his principle…

But from the bottom of my heart I want to thank that girl for entering that boy’s life, making him to realize the beauty of life and spreading this message to many people like me to re-discover their lives.

So this is my resolution for new year, re-discover the life in a different style, in a different attitude, see the positive side of the life under bad situations and don’t plan and run behind the things, let the things run

behind you… In a simple sentence “Haso, gaao, jiyo, muskuraao, kya patha Kal ho na ho”.

Have fun… Enjoy and rock the life….

Wish you and your family a happy and prosperous new year in advance… Maja maadi

Chill…Sanju